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Post by francisjpantland on Aug 29, 2013 5:46:14 GMT -5
Seeing as how we're all supposedly a little older over here, I have a question... I'm not quite sure how to articulate my thoughts, but I'll try (and I apologise if this comes across as a rant)... I understand that yoyos have progressed remarkably over the last 25 years, but do you guys ever get frustrated at people who always think that yoyos are simple kids toys (eg. like a dingbat, or something)? Recently I had an older family member visiting, and together we visited old family friends and extended family... Now, my family member mentioned to a number of people that one of my claims to fame is being good with a yoyo (essentially setting me up for a little showoff). You could almost hear everyone's eyes rolling. No one even attempted to make polite conversation (such as, "Oh, that interesting, you must know a lot of tricks."). Completely ignored. Every now and then I get requests to play at kids' birthday parties, and I have to admit, I hate doing them. Inevitably, the kids would rather be doing something active, like playing catch or soccer or something, or something chilled (like play on their iphones and ipods). I'm a lousy entertainer, and when I have had these bookings in the past, I always hated trying to make people like me. If kids are having fun on their ipods, who am I to interfere with their lives and end up looking like a cheap clown.? Anyone else who feels something similar? Like, yoyoing has become more of an art form now and the general public just don't know any better to appreciate it? Or am I just grumpy..? Maybe I need to get some gigs playing at a bar full of partially drunk people
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Post by Waylon Crase on Aug 29, 2013 8:45:22 GMT -5
I feel you. No one takes this shit seriously, especially if you're an adult doing it. My response to ball busting is usually something like, "Well, I can either do something like this with my free time, or I can go home every day, like you, and watch four hours of DVR'd nonsense and tell myself that's some kind of life.". I hate to be a negative nancy, but people are dumb. What's worse is, they don't know it.
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Post by francisjpantland on Aug 29, 2013 12:04:55 GMT -5
Thing is... When I'm in a social setting, meeting and getting to know new people and what makes them tick, I very rarely mention yoyos. I think this is a real pity because it's something that really does make me tick, if people genuinely want to know me, yoyoing is a very big part of my life (it's also a lot more interesting than a lot of other hobbies out there, like watching 4hrs of DVR'd crap...).
When asked what my interests or hobbies are, I usually just say something like, "Reading books and going on long walks." Although not entirely accurate, it is just so much easier (and dare I say, socially appropriate) to say this rather than mention yoyos and either, A) Being ignored like a geeky loser (not that all geeks are losers!!), or B) Having to justify and explain it for a couple of hours (and have them still think I'm some kind of lousy cheap clown).
Maybe I just find myself in awkward social settings where anything out the norm is frowned upon? I thought being interesting was a good thing. Is it really so bad to have a little more depth than a saucer of water....?
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Post by Kyle Thomason on Aug 29, 2013 14:21:08 GMT -5
"...I can go home every day, like you, and watch four hours of DVR'd nonsense and tell myself that's some kind of life." Hahaha. I like that. Even though it's partly true for me The general public doesn't, can't, and never will understand nor fully appreciate the complexities of modern yoyoing. And yeah, many look down on us because of that. You have two solutions: a) Only yoyo in complete solitude or b) Not give a shit what people say about your favorite hobbies. Someone else's opinion only has as much power as you give it. I've been told PLENTY of times, "that's stupid" or "what a waste of money". It doesn't affect me whatsoever. I have fun with it, and that's all that really matters to me. Sidenote: Thanks for a forum that isn't so toddler-oriented, Waylon. It's like being able to loosen your belt after a big Thanksgiving meal.
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Post by Waylon Crase on Aug 30, 2013 0:43:56 GMT -5
"...I can go home every day, like you, and watch four hours of DVR'd nonsense and tell myself that's some kind of life." Hahaha. I like that. Even though it's partly true for me The general public doesn't, can't, and never will understand nor fully appreciate the complexities of modern yoyoing. And yeah, many look down on us because of that. You have two solutions: a) Only yoyo in complete solitude or b) Not give a shit what people say about your favorite hobbies. Someone else's opinion only has as much power as you give it. I've been told PLENTY of times, "that's stupid" or "what a waste of money". It doesn't affect me whatsoever. I have fun with it, and that's all that really matters to me. Sidenote: Thanks for a forum that isn't so toddler-oriented, Waylon. It's like being able to loosen your belt after a big Thanksgiving meal. I think people generally have the attitude that if they don't understand something, then it's stupid and they don't like it. My pleasure
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Post by tobyschneider on Aug 31, 2013 15:16:02 GMT -5
Yeah, I usually yoyo at school between classes or whenever, and some kids think it's pretty cool, but most of the time, people just think I'm playing with a kid's toy. Even though it is ultimately a toy, we see it more as a hobby, or even a lifestyle. If people ask me how much my highend throws cost (even though I rarely play them in public), they laugh at me and tell me I wasted $100+ on a yoyo. I don't mind spending a lot of money on something I enjoy, and if they really start talking shit, I usually point out their $200+ basketball shoes or other dumb shit they have. That usually shuts them up quick. Most of my close friends think it's cool or simply just don't care, which is fine by me.
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